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Hi Victor,


thanks for info as I write in the other thread.


Im now a bit misinformed about in which hospital Lea was/is now. More sad about Chris that he will arrive before christmas in regard of my hospital help offer in my email. I dont know what to do now.



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Dear Andy,

Thank you for your new message.  May I suggest you contact Oldrich Widman in Prague dream@iol.cz tomorrow and have a word with him.

I would like Lea to be able to take her mind off just pain and having to sleep a lot and perhaps get her a bit more active, if her strength allows, because her mind is fine.

Daniella Rush was able to use the Hospital computer but then hers was physical infirmity and I do not think her discomfort/pain and tiredness was so bad as Lea's is at present.

It would have been nice for Lea to hear a little music quietly in a patients' lounge or side room also to use the laptop. Lea apparently used to write hundreds of SMS messages before on her phone.

Lea is back in the older hospital (the one she is not so keen on, alas  - but this is where the oncologists are treating her, I understand) .

I believe that Oldrich is seeing Lea tonight after work and he is taking some presents, cds and dvd, etc to the hospital, but I do not know if Lea is well enough to make use of them all at the moment. Apparently, Lea's face is a little swollen because of the excess fluids blockage that Chris D. was very worried about, but which I believe have now been drained off.

Oldrich's personal assistant is Jana so maybe you will be able to arrange to have a word with Oldrich tomorrow after he knows more from his visit which is probably taking place right now in Prague. 

The "older" hospital is I think close to Oldrich's offices. The newer place that Lea liked is a military hospital and that's where Lea had the urgent surgical procedures carried out.

More donations have been coming in on the ADT Site but the List of Donors needs to be updated a fair bit, I think.  There is some info on www.adultdvdtalk.com from Lance and myself in the topic for Lea.

Best wishes and thanks for your kind thoughts for Lea De Mae.

Regards,

Victor, London.
Monday 22nd November 2004 7.50pm 



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Latest updates from Prague by Lea's stalwart friend, Chris Danneffel:

      "The "old and ugly" caught her again"

Already during my update of Lea's page on Friday, something unpleasant was going on behind the scenes. I had to learn about it Friday evening. I went to visit Lea like each day this week. But while entering the room I got aware of a black-haired man lying in "Lea's bed" instead of her. I asked one of the doctors for the reason of that. He explained that because of lack of capacities, they decided in the morning to transfer Lea De Mae back to the previous "old and ugly" hospital for further treatment.

Of course, there are other hospitals in Prague, but Lucie says that they all are about same with only slight differences. In the hopital in Motol, e.g., where Lea had to go for the MRI shortly before her first surgery last weekend, they let her wait on a hard surface and without a blanket, although Lea had severe pains. Lucie therefore was kind of fighting with the head physician and with the chief of the hospital in order to let Lea stay in the high standard clinic. She was even offering money. But all her attempts to keep Lea De Mae where she wanted to stay were in vain.

As right now we're not talking about a recidive treatment but about a regular long term follow up treatment (chemotherapy), a German hospital would not be the solution. Furthermore Lea De Mae of course wants to stay in Prague and close to her family and friends which we all have to respect. A high class private clinic with oncology dept. in Czech Republic would be fine for Lea De Mae. But according to Lea's current doctor, there isn't any.

Chris - Prague, Czech Republic 20th November 2004
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      "Fighting two fires"

Already on Sunday I had the opportunity of talking to Lea's current (oncology) doctor who is responsible for her treatment after surgery. His intention to finish Lea's Temodal therapy and to proceed with CCNU has it's reason in the refusal of the insurance office to pay for Temodal again. Thanks to Lea's donors (list will be updated tomorrow) I was in the position to tell him that he should not consider money a problem! In this case, he answered, Lea's can be treated with Temodal again as soon as her constitution allows it. This tumor treatment is fire No.1

Fire No.2 is her back. As I mentioned earlier Lea broke her back 8 years ago when practising as high diver for Atlanta. These past pains came back after the end of her radio and chemotherapy more than two weeks ago - together with terrible headaches. While due to the surgeries last weekend the latter are now reduced to a "normal" level, the pains in her back still merely paralyse her completely. Therefore today a CT of Lea's back will finally be made. I'll take the results with me to Germany (Tuesday) and search for specialists for pain treatment and orthopaedists.

This is one of the problems of our medical structure of today: there are specialists for this and for that. But they rarely talk to each other and they are far away from working closely together. Thus, when a patient like Lea De Mae comes up with two different problems, one of it has to wait too long for being solved.

As of yesterday Lea De Mae's mother stays in the hospital all day and night.

Latest news: a guy known as 'Mikey', the producer of internet websites mikesapartment.com and many more, successfully asked the owner of Leademae.com for permission to use it. Thanks to him Lea's page now appears on your browser when you use URL www.leademae.com.

Chris - Prague, Czech Republic 21st November 2004
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      "Wrong highway - no exit?"

From insiders I heard that in former times the famous Military Hospital (where Lea's surgeries were done) had a death rate of about 80%. Under new management and with star operateurs like Dr. Benes it is now as low as 20%-30%. There are rumours that this success is NOT ONLY due to best equipment and treatments, but also to attempts to get rid of cases which doctors consider hopeless. If this is true, I hope that Lea gets healthy soon and gives the doctors some lessons. I was told that the flow of information between the hospitals is very bad.  Especially between the Military Hospital (which is different to the other clinics in many ways) and the "normal" clinics in Prague, there is almost no communication between the doctors.

By now I should be back in Germany, my job in the radio station waits for me. Thanks to my boss and my colleagues I could stay three days longer than the original maximum. I urged them to permit it because the situation in Prague gets more and more unpleasant to all of us.

In the old hospital which Lea De Mae had to return to, she could get what was not possible for her in the highly respected Military Hospital.  A small private room which costs 800 Kc per day. Her family members rotate in regard of staying with her in the night. That's the good information.

Last Monday, the doctors wanted to make a CT of her back in order to find out if her back pains stem from the back or from the tumor. Lea De Mae, who didn't get morphine for the first time after many days reacted like crazy: she was beating the nurses and screaming and crying.  In these moments, you can see how young and strong she is and how full of energy still. So the doctors decided to make the CT on Tuesday. Therefore I stayed in Prague one more day.

Right before I went to the hospital in order to get the results, Lucie sent me an SMS: "Chris they are not going to do ct, they are saying that this is not problem with her back but the tumour cells going thru her moving sistem. That is why she cannot speak and having mental problem. They said they have to start with chemotherapy right away."

Again, I can't understand what's going on there!!! She has these back pains for about three weeks now. How come that all of a sudden the doctors know that the pains stem from tumour cells and not from her back? Why in the hell did they plan to make a CT of her back yesterday? And why do they want to start chemotherapy right away, since two days before the chief doctor told me this would kill her, because her condition is too bad? We don't know what to do.

Here are some more confusing details: (1) According to Lucie there are about 5 different doctors who are responsible for Lea's treatment. Because of the move from her bed on the second floor down into her private room on the first floor she's now under control of the doctor of the first floor and no longer under control of the doctor of the second floor!!! (2) Lucie asked, if Lea still gets morphine. One of the doctors said "yes", another doctor said "no". I talked to a third doctor: she didn't know anything!

Unfortunately, the chief doctor was not there when I arrived in the hospital. Before I leave to Germany today I want to speak to him again. I fear we're driving on the wrong highway as of the beginning and I don't know where to leave it - I see no exit!

Chris - Prague, Czech Republic 24th November 2004
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      "Between panic and hope"

It's hard to keep up with all what happens. On the 24th finally I was able to speak to several of the responsible doctors. I felt relieved, when I heard that they finally decided NOT to do a chemotherapy right now, because German specialists told me that would kill her right away because of her weak constitution.

The blood examination shows positive results. Regarding the type of treatment (when her constitution is better) the doctors uttered different opinions. One of them preferred BCNU, the other Temozolimid. Additionally, they were now convinced that the pains in her back indeed stem from her former injuries and also from a congenital defect with incomplete closure of the vertebral column. They suspect the other symptoms (she can hardly speak, nor drink or eat anymore) being a result from new pressure in her brain.

The chief of the department told me that maybe Lea's shunt doesn't work properly. However, they wanted to wait with another CT until the symptoms would get worse. I urged him to do a new CT as early as possible and I was asking him for the current list of medication, in order to discuss them with German clinics. These talks and waiting for the doctors took so much time that I decided to stay in Prague again for one more day.

According to Lucie who spent the night with Lea De May in the private room "She was not moving at all and she didn't react on anything. Today it is a same."

Now, what happened on the 25th? I was already sitting in my car in order to drive home, when I got aware of an SMS from Lucie: "Chris call me it is important!" So I called her back. She said that they indeed made a new CT in the old hospital and wanted to compare them with the latest CT results from the Military Hospital. But the Military Hospital didn't have these anymore! Fortunately I had a copy of those, went to the office of a friend of mine and sent her the pictures via eMail. Later the doctors in the old hospital were told by the doctors in the Military Hospital that the "problem with the shunt" was not really a problem, but that they simply must puncture Lea's Ommaya reservoir.

In the old hospital they had never done it before. Lea's case was the first! However, it amazed all doctors (in the old hospital and in the Military Hospital) that Lea's production of spinal fluid was so fast that the pressure came back so quickly. Now we hope that Lea's health situation stabilizes, while we are discussing about the proper future chemotherapy.

Finally I received Lucie's thank you note. Unlike mentioned earlier it is not the words of Lea but of Lucie, her sister. It is now about one month old, but Lea herself was already to weak to concentrate for a longer period of time, so she asked her sister to find the right words in her place. It's in Czech language, but I'm sure somebody will translate it for us.

Chris - Prague, Czech Republic 27th November 2004
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      "Thank you" Note in Czech from Lucie Absolonova on behalf of Lea (to be translated) ,....

Pro ty kteri by radi znaly cely prubeh jeji zavazne nemoci jsem si dovolila napsat par radku.

Ma sestra (pro Vas Lea De Mae) po dlouhou dobu trpela velkymi bolestmi hlavy a byla lecena na zablokovanou krcni pater. Lekari ji predepisovali stale silnejsi a silnejsi prasky proti bolesti, ktere vubec nezabiraly. Doslo to tak daleko, ze se ji zacal zhorsovat zrak a zacala cim dal mene citit levou stranu tela.

Kdyz uz se vubec neudrzela na nohou a mela jiz nesnesitelne bolesti, tak ji teprve doktori poslali na CT vysetreni a nasli ji nador na mozku. Situace byla jiz tak vazna, ze ji muesli ihned operovat. Operace byla provenedena profesorem Benesem ve Stresovicke nemocnici v Praze, ktery provedl neuveritelne zdareny vykon. Podarilo se mu odstranit vse krome maleho kousku, ktery byl jiz prorostly do mozkove tkane a jeho vyjmutim by byly ohrozeny zivotni funkce. Par dni po operaci byla castecne ochrnuta na levou stranu tela, ale jeji stav se stale zlepsoval jak po psychicke tak po fyzicke strance. Meli jsme velikou radost z jejiho rychleho uzdravovani a doufali jsme , ze to nejhorsi jiz ma za sebou. A pak prisel ten SOK! Histologicky nalez ukazal, ze nador co ma je ten nejhorsi typ zhoubneho nadoru, ktery muze byt. S touto zpravou se jeji zdravotni stav rapidne zhorsil a zacala mit stejne priznaky jako pred operaci. Hned zacala podstupovat radioterapii a po dvou tydnech s problemy s pojistovnou i chemoterapii.

Ted vsichni cekame, na to jak nador zareaguje a snazime se najit v pripade potreby alternativni lecbu, ktera by zachranila nebo alespon prodlouzila jeji zivot.

Omlouvam se Vam,ze s Vami nemohu byt kazdy den v kontaktu a informovat Vas o jejim zdravotnim stavu, ale v tuto tezkou chvili venuji vsechen cas sve setre a slibuji Vam, ze pokud nastanou nejake zmeny, tak Vam dam ihned vedet.

Na zaver bych chtela dat specialni dik Chris Danneffel, Monica Sweetheart a Oldrich Widman, kteri jsou velkou oporou me setre a cele me rodine!

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Thank You Note

To all friends and fans of LEA DE MAE
written by her sister Lucie Absolonova
Prague, Czech Republic, October 2004.



To all of you who are carrying Lea in your hearts

First of all, I would like to thank you very much on behalf of Lea and myself for your help!

Every day, I read your messages and best wishes to Lea and I can say that what I see in her eyes is the indescribable words of thanks and even a far more craving and strength to fight for her life. And for this, we owe all of you.

For those of you who would like to know the whole process of her serious illness, I dare to write this short account.

My sister (Lea De Mae, to you) had suffered from big headaches for a long time and therefore she was treated for the blockage of her neck-spinal. The doctors treated her by prescribing mostly analgesics. They prescribed stronger and stronger analgesics but without any effect. This poor situation reached the point where Lea started to suffer from bad vision (her eyes became bad) and she also started to barely feel the left side of her body.

When the pain was completely unbearable and she couldn't stand any more on her own legs, the doctors sent her for a CT (Computer Tomography) examination - which revealed a brain tumour. The situation was seriously bad so Lea had to immediately undergo surgery.

The entire operation was performed by famous Professor Dr. Benes in the Military Hospital in Stresovice in Prague. Dr. Benes has carried out an unbelievably successful and clear operation. He succeded in removing all of the tumour except for one small piece which had already infiltrated into the brain, because by removing this small piece, it would have caused great danger to main vital and health functions.

A few days after operation, Lea was partially paralyzed on her left side, but after that, her condition started to improve and Lea was feeling better and better on both physical and psychological sides. As Lea was convalescing fast, we were lucky and enjoyed this. And then, the shock came! The histological examination of the removed tumour revealed the worst form of brain cancer that can exist. Accordingly, with this bad news Lea's condition went again down with the same symptoms before the surgery. Lea immediately underwent radiotherapy and after a 2 weeks problem with the insurance company, also chemotherapy.

Now, we are awaiting to see how the tumour will respond to this therapy and we are trying to find, in case of need, any alternative treatment, which will save her life or at least make it longer.

I apologize that I cannot be in touch with you every day and inform you about Lea's current situation, but at this time, I devote all the time to my sister and I promise that if any change will occur, I will inform you.

Finally, I would like to give a big special thanks to Chris Danneffel, Monica Sweetheart and Oldrich Widman; they are all great standbys for my sister and all my family.

By Lucie Absolonova, Prague, October 2004

(Thanks to Andy in Prague for the translation)



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Latest news from Chris Danneffel

"Anxiously waiting"

Thanks to Andy in Prague we have now an English version of Lucie's "thank you note" of October 2004.

How is Lea De Mae today? Lucie describes it like this: "I don't know what to think about my sister's condition. She is out of her mind, she calls people different names, she sees something that we don't. I hope that it is just temporary. She is eating and drinking again, that is good. But, she is also again in big pain."

We anxiously wait for Lea's constitution to become better, so that she can benefit from a further therapy. There are 3 possible up-to-date standard chemo treatments: ACNU/VM26, Temozolomid and BCNU (CCNU).

Thanks to Victor we know that the Samantha Dickson Research Trust in England offers clinical trials, in which the effect of Clomipramine is examined. But, for the first official results, we still have to wait 2-3 years.

Chris - Constance, Germany, 1st December 2004


 



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From the ADT Site, www.adultdvdtalk.com (Star Crossed Forum) Lea De Mae Assistance topic.


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Dear Chris,

Thank you so much for your faithful and loyal help to poor Lea De Mae still suffering pain and confusion in Prague. Hopefully, the latter is a temporary condition only as normally with medications, you often expect to get this for elderly or weak patients. Sometimes, people revert to their mother tongue even though they have been speaking English for decades or do not recognise everyone as usual, etc.

I know that you have had to give up attending work and I expect been involved in extra expenses staying nearby Lea to help her with all the added doctors' procedures and changed hospitals, etc. For our part (as donors of $1,000 etc.), I am happy for some of this to be paid to meet your emergency expenses, as without you there helping and co-ordinating everything, goodness knows what would have happened by now. It seems you have had to become a consultant yourself!

I am surprised that doctors are allowed to withhold treatment merely because of insurance payment considerations? In this country, this would be subject to High Court action, as it is tantamount to wilfully letting someone die, it seems to me.

Fortunately, because of Oldrich Widman's foresight, we are not in this position, but God help anyone over there who cannot pay when the chips are down! Maybe I'm wrong, but we can return to this topic another time.

Re: the English translation for the Czech "Thank You" from Lucie, I will post it up on here and at Silvia Saint's Forum as usual.

I am sure that I speak on behalf of all Lea's well-wishers to say that Lea could not have a better friend helping her and Lucie in these very difficult times.

In thoughts of Lea and God bless her.

Thank you Chris from everyone.
30th November 2004.


POSTSCRIPT: 1st December.  I have just received a message from Chris saying that of course everything he does is because of his heartfelt support and admiration for Lea and that he would not dream of accepting any kind of expenses payment, etc.  Chris said he always remembers Lea's kindness that she would not charge him any photographic model fees when he shot the lovely non-nude pics last year.




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 " Dear Kind Forum Members And Friends "


 As I just read Lucies very sincere thank you letter to everyone, I also
 wish to thank countless highly motivated people here and elsewhere,
 who have carried lovely Lea's prayers inside their hearts, and helped
 sweet Lea in so many wonderful ways in the last few months !


 Lea De Mae has had a journey through darkness and pain, and her
 private hell'ish tribulations, really cant' be discussed here, mainly
 because we have all grown to love Lea so very much !


 It's our duty right now, to keep all our candles a light, and pray for
 Lea like we have never before, we must all believe in miracles, that 
 all her terrible pains will subside, and her condition will improve to a
 whole new level..and soon we will all see her lovely smile again !


 Dear Lea, we all believe in you and new hope for tomorrow !


 We Are All Here For You Always, With Our Quiet Prayers..!


                                                      Sincerely                                   Juhaniesq.    
 


 
 
  


 


 


 


 


 



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 " Unfortunately Lea is still experiancing severe aches and pains ?"


 Hello again dear friends, some updates about Lea...Dated  Dec:1:st,
 2004, Lea's younger sister Lucie, has been incredibly worried about
 seriousness of Lea's medical condition lately ?
 Lucie noticed that Lea doesen't seem to recocnize people properly, but
 hopefully this is just a temporary condition,which will improve with time?
 But, Lea actually had something to eat and drink during the weekend, 
 which is a very positive sign, but unfortunately..Lea's is still having to
 deal with severe aches and pains all over ?


 Then later on Mon. Dec:6:th 04. Chris Danneffel  had kindly inquired
 about Lea's current condition, and doctors informed him that Lea just 
 seems to be lying on her side very quietly, and talking or communicating
 with her is extremely difficult and nearly impossible at this time ?


 Unfortunaly her condition has not improved and Lea is still experiancing
 extreme aches and pains in her back & her neck areas, even though
 she is already recieving morphine plus other medicines for her pains ?


 Late development seems to be, that Lea is running some fever..but
 doctors are not doing anything for it just yet, but they are keeping a 
 very close watch on her condition at this time ?


 All we can do..is hope and pray quietly, that Lea's condition improves 
 somewhat in the next few days !


 With All Our Wishes & Prayers For Lovely Lea !


                                                                                                    Juhaniesq. 


  


 


  


 


 
   


 



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"Still in bad condition"

I wish I'd have better informations to give you about Lea De Mae's current health status. I've been talking to her doctors today. They said that Lea is still only lying in her bed. Communicating with her is almost impossible. She still is in big pain (her back and her neck aches) although she again gets morphine in combination with other "pain killers".

Within the past few days nothing has changed, but I'm extremely worried because the doctors also told me that Lea has fever now (38°C)! Under these circumstances the doctors can't do anything at all but wait.

A British specialist in Liverpool has let me know that clomipramine (see "Anxiously waiting") shows good effects in cell cultures. But up to now there's no evidence for a good effect in patients with an aggressive brain tumor.

Chris - Constance, Germany, 6th December 2004



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Angela Dickson, the founder of "The Samantha Dickson Research Trust", did report today that a gentleman in England who has the same brain tumour grade as Lea has survived for 4 years whilst taking the compound Clomipramine.

I have sent this info on to Chris for possible consideration by Lea's medical team.

Angela felt that there was nothing to lose by trying this as an adjunct to the chemotherapy. Angela explained that the drug has been on the market for 20 years for another medical use  (anti-depressant).


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"Goodbye to Lea"

Although Lea was doing a little better the last two days and although Lea wanted so much to live, she suddenly passed away today.

Lucie's message was a shock to me: "Chris Andrea died at 15.15".  I still can't believe it. I'm going to Prague tomorrow. I'm so sad and I know all of you are. Tears are falling down at many places around the world these days.

Chris - Constance, Germany, 9th December 2004 
 


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Lea De Mae Passes Away  
(AVN news article 9th December, 2004.)

By: Dan Miller 



PRAGUE - Adult performer Lea DeMae passed away earlier today in a hospital in Prague, AVN.com has learned.

DeMae's long-time agent and friend, Oldrich Widman, said he actually was on his way to visit her when her sister Lucie called him with the sad news. DeMae had been fighting a rare form of brain cancer.

"She died three hours ago," Widman told AVN.com. "I just left the family a couple minutes ago and they are organizing the funeral tomorrow. She got the best treatment she could get. Unfortunately, we couldn't help her more than we did."

"I'm still a little bit stressed. I didn't expect this. Monday I heard she was getting better, and we were so happy and we just got this bad news."

DeMae, a popular star that had a six-year adult performing and modeling career, would've turned 28 on Dec. 26. She earned a nomination for AVN Foreign Female Performer of the Year for the 2004 ceremony.

Some of DeMae's more recent work included performances in Wet Dreams Cum True 2 (Zero Tolerance), Broken English (Platinum X), Dripping Wet Sex 5 and Juicy G-Spots (Simon Wolf) and 2003 compilation from Private, The Private Life of Lea DeMae.

She also landed the September 2004 cover and centerfold of Hustler.
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Lea De Mae


Please let me pay tribute to LEA DE MAE (Andrea Absolonova)  memory. She left us after long illness this afternoon.

It was big shock for everybody. We will remember her ... she was a great person and mainly, a great friend.

Please keep the remembrance of her in your mind ... Silvia  
 (9th December)


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    Friday 10 December 2004  Pics-and-Models
    A year cannot peter out in a sadder way. Our model Lea De Mae passed away in Hospital Bulovka in Prague yesterday at 15.15 pm. She didn't want to go there in any case. She wanted to stay in the Military Hospital which is an institute on a high international level. There she underwent several surgeries and received a good treatment. But their capacities are limited. They didn't even admit payola. Assumingly, because the doctors already gave up on Andrea (Lea's real name) and because they wanted to keep the death rate low for their statistics.

    A transfer to Germany was discussed and would have been possible as soon as Andrea's condition would have allowed it. But in Hospital Bulovka, Andrea didn't recover from her last operations.

 




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 " Dear Forum Friend's, Most Terrible News From Prague !"


 


 Dearest caring friends, and silviasaintclub forum members, I regret to
 inform you that  Lovely Lea De Mae has passed away  !


 I Wish To Express My Deepest Heartfelt Condolences To Lea De Mae's
 Loving Family and All Her Close Friends, and Admirers !


 I also wish to mention here , that lovely *Lea De Mae*  will live deep in 
 our hearts forever and she will never be forgotten !


 I must continue here, that so many wonderful caring people stepped  
 up to help and assist  Lea De Mae  in her time of Great Need..that they
 all deserve a Very Special Mention of All Their Own !
 If you permit me, I will compose a Special Poem For Lea De Mae, and
 within that humble gesture, I am highly honored to make a short list
 mentioning everyone in it..who devoted their own time and efforts to
 this very important cause to help lovely Lea !


  With Sincerest Thoughts......


                                                                                                      Juhaniesq.     


 


 


 


 



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 " Our Prayers Will be With  Lovely *Lea De Mae  Always "


  Wish Upon a Star .             Poem For Lea


    Now you come to us
    on angels wings,


    softly flowing, gently
    through our dreams,


    with starburst kisses,
    and moonbeam wishes
    we will always remember
    your lovely smile,


    you touched' our hearts
    so tenderly, always with
    kindness and sweet grace,


    then you were suddenly
    taken from us, to a far
    away heavenly place .


                                            By:   Juhani.-
 


    Here is a Short List of highly caring and devoted people, who went'
    Above and Beyond The Call Of Duty,  to help and assist very lovely 
    Lea de Mae  in her time of great need !


 
   Oldrich Widman - Dream Entertainment & caring staff .
   Lucie Absolonova -
   Monica Sweetheart -
   Silvia Saint -
   Daniella Rush -


   Chris Danneffel -

   Darrin Lucas - And many caring Members At - "AdultDVDTalk" !


   Pres. L. Flynt and V.P. Mark Hamilton -


   Victor - P. Sullivan, Raymond, Kevin, and Brian -
   Juhani -
   Alexander -
   Andy - and several very caring members at clubsilviasaint.net forums.


   Bill Wright -
   Katja Kassin -
   Francesco Malcom -
   Driesp Breyne -
   Gianni Sandello -
   J.M. Carrasco Romero -
   Juanito -  
                 -  "and several very high profile people in the adult industry"
                       Mikey - 
                       Dennis-  Black Magic Group - 


   Please note:  This is only a "short- list" because there are several
                           other forums on the internet, totally devoted to  
                           help & assist  Lea De Mae's  tragic cause .  


    I Wish To Sincerely Thank Everyone  &(who are not listed here), It's
    These Very Highly Special People, Who Made the Real Difference For  
    wonderful  Lea De Mae  In Her Last Few Valiant Months In Prague !


    I wish to express my heartfelt condolences to Lea De Mae's loving
    family in Prague .


     Sincerely                                                                               Juhaniesq.
                    
 
  


 


 



   
    


 


 


 


 



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One wonders about the medical treatment Lea received.  At first, despite constant headaches, Lea was just given headache tablets!  No checks were suggested by the doctor.

NB. In the bad old days, people with severe stomach cancer, etc were sent away with big bottles of Milk of Magnesia (Indigestion medicine!) for an upset tummy  - by the time the doctors realised what was really wrong, it was too late and the patient was given a piece of paper saying 3 or 6 months to live! (the death sentence).

The operation Lea underwent was said to be excellent, but then the surgeon said he would not have operated if he had known what type of tumour it was.  But how do they find out what type it is I wonder without operating?  I presume this can be done from comments made by the SDRT in the UK, who said that Grade IV tumours as Lea had are not usually operated on.

The chemotherapy was delayed for two weeks because of insurance money holdups.

I think Chris asked them about trying Clomipramine (the SDRT reports that a man in the UK has survived for 4 years who has exactly the same tumour as Lea had) but they didn't. 

The old hospital Lea disliked didn't have services at the weekend and Lea was left for days in unnecessary bad pain and discomfort.

I do wonder if the diagnosis had been done at the time of the warning signals (constant headaches) and better post-operative treatment, things might have been different?

I am not sure exactly what caused Lea's sudden death, as Chris said she had a fever but was otherwise a little better. Did Lea then die from a fever with no antibiotics?

So much work was done by Chris  - but the Czech doctors - I don't know what they were doing or what their strategy was? 

If Lea had been in America and diagnosed properly at the outset, would Lea still be alive today?

Such a waste of a young life - all the money cancer research has had, all the millions, yet still people have little chance it seems, when diagnosis opportunities are missed.




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 " What If...?"


 It's often very easy to raise questions, about what should' have been
 done..after the fact, but, I cant' help but to look back at what actually
 happened to lovely Lea, over the last couple of months in Prague ?


 Right at the on set..the main diagnosis indicated that she had a very
 rare form of brain cancer..which unfortunately was already at stage-
 IV..(if the diagnosis was absolutely correct), this fact alone makes
 Lea's case "extremely difficult to cure", even if she had the absolute
 best Hospital facilities and specialist doctor's at her disposal, still, I feel
 that quite a lot of time was wasted..because of some small insurance
 problems, and usually during weekends the care she recieved was Nil ?


 Some members here may remember, that I wrote several letters into
 our Forums, because I was increasingly worried about Lea's extremely
 serious condition, and because, so very little was actually done to help
 her at the time ?


 It must be said here also, that Lea's team of doctors did what they
 could' at the time, but, unfortunately the system and the facilities
 they had to work with..may have hampered their healing progress
 quite significantly, in Lea De Mae's highly difficult case ?


 Sincerely                                                                                     Juhaniesq.


  


 


 



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Dear Juhani,

We are also discussing this medical care at the above site.

I cannot help feeling that the Czech medical diagnosis and care was lacking at key times before and after and this put Lea at a disadvantage. Some of the things Lea had to endure after, as Chris reported to us, were unbearable to read and hard to accept.  I am not even sure what Lea died of exactly - as she was making an improvement, it seems, when she expired?

All very upsetting, adding to the anguish we are suffering. You may remember that the second hospital were even refusing to carry on with the chemo (2nd lot) having already delayed the first treatment on account of insurance!  It's like the highway robber (Dick Turpin) saying "Your money or your life!"



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 " Looking back at those tests & few treatments Lea actually recieved ?


 It goes without saying, that as we recieved close up information about
 Lea's very enduring tests and treatments..between those two hospitals 
 she was forced to visit often, Lea truly preferred to stay at that much
 newer up to date..Military Hospital much more, that older dingy hospital
 really affected her..it always made her feel very depressed and very 
 sad !


 Also over the two month's, as the time went' on..the reports we began
 recieving were quite difficult to read..because it was totally obvious
 to everyone, that Lea was putting on a very valiant front..but in reality
 she was suffering with unbearable aches and pains in her Head, Neck,
 and Back, but, unfortunately,Lea's medical team were usually incredibly
 slow to respond to her horrible pains, and often..they just ended up 
 administering more morphine ? 


 The last few weeks we all felt incredibly worried, mainly  because Lea
 slept almost constantly, and she didnt' respond to normal speech hardly
 at all, and by then her medical side affects, were affecting her quite
 severely ? 


 One Important Question Arises From All This..and it is, if Lea De Mae
 was transferred earlier to another country..for example - Germany,
 where she could' have recieved the finest care in the world, would'
 that have been enough, to change the full course of her decease ?

 This above question can be really only answered by the fine surgeon
 Dr. V. B. who first operated on her, and Lea's medical team..at the 
 Military Hospital, because usually in a very complex case  like this..
 nothing can be predicted with absolute total certainty, there are just
 too many unknown variables, which actually affect the final outcome ?


  Yours Truly                                                                             Juhaniesq.


 


 

    



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